Expectations are roots to sorrow

Every time we feel SAD...The only reason for that is some thing not happened what you expected. People are always happy when things happen as expected...This is the nature of humans...Now our topic slightly to come out of this...Upcource it takes ages to master it but you can always start...Very simple...STOP EXPECTING...I hear you saying...Crap...How is that possible...Yes!!! it might not be 100% possible but at least to some percentage its possible.

One day huge number of people showed interest in joining Mahathma Gandhi in freedom movement...He said..."Thanks"....And later many people didn't agree with his vision and left him...Then he was not at all sad and even didn't ask them to join back. Now people asked him, why are you not sad? we may loose the freedom movement if they don;t support us...Call them back...Gandhi smiled and replied..."I didn't expect them to join and I started this movement assuming me alone. So I am not sad when they leave me"...

Even in Bagavath Geetha, Sri Krishna clearly say that, "Do your best and leave the results to me". Even Lord is saying that not to Expect the results.

Actually Expectations are good in life, which actually help us to inspire and makes us to work hard...We are after all simple humans...Now don;t become angry on me for reversing my thoughts...Let us more talk what can be possible rather talking on over the air...Ok lets get in to clarity....

For normal people like me, we cannot live with out Expectations. So let us bring the bar little down and say Expectations are good but Over Expectations are bad....

Now what is "over"....That's very difficult to conclude....Now I have an Expectations that atleast 1 person see my blogs. Then "Over" would be, this blog should be read by all my friends...Now with simple Expectation, I feel very happy if I get even 1 hit. But with OVER Expectations, My happiness of some folks reading will be dominated by sadness of few folks didn't reading it. See it's all depends on you to be happy or not....

So clearly define your Expectations and OVER Expectations on every activity....Make an Habit of doing this before doing anything...And see the Magic...