Expectations are roots to sorrow

Every time we feel SAD...The only reason for that is some thing not happened what you expected. People are always happy when things happen as expected...This is the nature of humans...Now our topic slightly to come out of this...Upcource it takes ages to master it but you can always start...Very simple...STOP EXPECTING...I hear you saying...Crap...How is that possible...Yes!!! it might not be 100% possible but at least to some percentage its possible.

One day huge number of people showed interest in joining Mahathma Gandhi in freedom movement...He said..."Thanks"....And later many people didn't agree with his vision and left him...Then he was not at all sad and even didn't ask them to join back. Now people asked him, why are you not sad? we may loose the freedom movement if they don;t support us...Call them back...Gandhi smiled and replied..."I didn't expect them to join and I started this movement assuming me alone. So I am not sad when they leave me"...

Even in Bagavath Geetha, Sri Krishna clearly say that, "Do your best and leave the results to me". Even Lord is saying that not to Expect the results.

Actually Expectations are good in life, which actually help us to inspire and makes us to work hard...We are after all simple humans...Now don;t become angry on me for reversing my thoughts...Let us more talk what can be possible rather talking on over the air...Ok lets get in to clarity....

For normal people like me, we cannot live with out Expectations. So let us bring the bar little down and say Expectations are good but Over Expectations are bad....

Now what is "over"....That's very difficult to conclude....Now I have an Expectations that atleast 1 person see my blogs. Then "Over" would be, this blog should be read by all my friends...Now with simple Expectation, I feel very happy if I get even 1 hit. But with OVER Expectations, My happiness of some folks reading will be dominated by sadness of few folks didn't reading it. See it's all depends on you to be happy or not....

So clearly define your Expectations and OVER Expectations on every activity....Make an Habit of doing this before doing anything...And see the Magic...

Which face you want to see???

   A person was praying the GOD to find few answers. And God came and asked, "What are you looking for my SON". The person replied, "GOD, I am so confused to find who is good and who is bad. Please show all BAD persons with devil face and i will try to avoid them and lead a happy life". God Smiled and replied, "Sure my Son... Your wish is granted and see you soon". He woke up in the morning and first thing he saw was a devil sleeping next to him. He was scared and in little time he found it was his WIFE and mumbled to himself, "Ho my god, I never thought my wife was bad. I need to deal with her carefully from now". Then He came out of his home and started seeing all look like devils and he again smiled and said to him self, "Ummm... There are so many bad people in this world. I have to be very very careful". He entered the office and again saw all devils only. He slowly started feeling uneasy to see almost all as devils. He was not able to think, concentrate on his work and not able to eat also as the person who prepared and served the foods also look like devils...

He was not able to do anything for whole day. He was not able to get sleep also and only thing he can image is devil faces. He was very unhappy and sad and depressed. Then he started searching for people who doesn't look like devil and for his bad luck he couldn't find any one.

And finally he look at the mirror and he was shocked!!! He found him self as Devil and shouted.."Ho Noooooo... this cannot happen"..

Started praying for GOD again and he realized why GOD told "See you soon" at the end.

GOD appeared, smiled and asked, "My SON, you called me again so FAST". The Person said," GOD everyone in this world looks like devils including my self. I do not understand this. Not even single person who is good in this world? Please save me. I cannot live in between these many devils".

Then God replied back and said, "My SON, Every body in this world have both good and bad in them. Nobody is 100% good or even 100% bad. Its all the perspective what we see. You were more interested in seeing bad and hence everybody looks like devil. Start Looking for Good and ignore bad in them, then see the magic."

From that day, He saw everybody's face started glowing like god, suddenly he felt everybody are soo good. And finally looked at mirror holding his breath and saw his face also glowing with charm and looks more beautiful than ever. Life became very beautiful and joyfull to him. As he started looking good in everybody, everybody slowly started seeing the same way to him. A big happy ending....

Now you choose what you want to see? Is all matters how you want to leave.